Home Showing Etiquette for Buyers in 2025

Couple touring a home with their agent in Grand Rapids, taking notes respectfully.

Looking in on homes in Grand Rapids should be exciting, not awkward. How you act during a showing matters — to sellers, to your agent, and to your chance of winning a bid. Here’s how to be the respectful, prepared buyer everyone prefers.


1. Have your pre-approval ready

Nothing says “I’m serious” like walking into a showing with proof you can buy the place. Sellers move faster for buyers who can show they’re financially ready.

2. Be on time

Showing schedules are tight. Arriving late throws everything off. If you're running late, call your agent so they can let the seller know.

3. Leave the place as you found it

No mess, no mud on shoes, no stray snacks. Sellers stage homes and clean ahead of time. Extend them the same courtesy — and ask where to put your shoes if it’s slippery outside.

4. Bring only who needs to be there

One or two people max. Too many looks chaotic — and kids running through a home may make a seller back off. Save extra groups for when you're closer to an offer.

5. Skip judgmental comments

Don’t say “this carpet is ugly” or “we don’t like that paint.” You can think that. Pros take notes without hurting feelings. Keep personal taste in your head until after you leave.

6. Ask before taking photos and videos

Technology is helpful — but walk through cameras respectfully. Ask your agent or the listing agent before snapping a pic. Sellers may have privacy concerns.

7. Keep your visit efficient

Take your time, but don’t overstay your welcome. Focus on what matters: layout, condition, how the home would work for you. A solid showing usually takes 30–45 minutes.

FAQ's

Why does etiquette matter when viewing homes?
It shows sellers and agents you’re serious, respectful, and easy to work with. That often gives you an edge if there’s a bidding war.

What’s the point of being on time?
Arriving late can leave a bad first impression and disrupt the seller’s plans. Timeliness shows professionalism.

Can I sneak a quick photo without asking?
No. Always ask permission. Some sellers value their privacy or want to limit online exposure.

Should I bring my kids or pets to showings?
Ideally no. Extra people or animals increase risk of accidents or rules violations. Bring them later in the process if you’re serious.

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Mike Smallegan
Mike Smallegan is a Grand Rapids-based Realtor and team leader who has helped more than 1,500 families and investors buy and sell homes across West Michigan. With deep local knowledge and a passion for community, he shares insights on neighborhoods, history, and the real estate market to help buyers and sellers make confident decisions.